Some people suit themselves perfectly into a new environment once after graduating from high school, but some might find it hard to cope with the new environment where you don't know anyone around you and they don't appear as friendly as your high school buddies where you've known for your past 5 - 6 years
Then you might start to wonder, hmm I'd wish that high school lasted forever, shy people could hardly cope with new environment probably because they are not the active kind of people that would most likely wish everyone that he/she sees
I would rate myself as a passive person, I am not so good yet when it comes to socialising, probably because I'm not a person that could start a conversation easily, most of the time, I would say that I'm afraid to start a conversation for the fear that I would bored people up because of my dull lifestyle which consist of just gaming, sleeping and eating.
but I would like to say something about myself that is, I'm willing to hang out if I get an invitation, I don't like to force myself into something that I'm not invited into, so most of the time, I would accept my friend's invitation to hang out at malls or watch movies. I don't really know why people would put a sour face at another person just because they do not know them, I think it's important not to read someone from their looks until we actually got into a conversation. I do know that most people would judge someone through their actions like swearing.
College life could be more exciting if everyone could be more friendlier and not to be so aggresive when it comes to friendship, don't expect too much from a friend if oneself doesn't even contribute a lot, most of the time, people don't contribute themselves fully because they don't trust a person yet, but why not give something a start, even for a friendship ?
Majority of the population would still be a little unmatured by thinking that the other individual that they might be talking to would probably be their girlfriend or boyfriend, but hey, don't draw too much attention, if you have a goal, tell your partner that you're just into friends and not a closer relationship. Why avoid meeting new people for just the sake of thinking that he or she that is being friendly towards you would probably be thinking that he or she is thinking of taking you as their boyfriend / girlfriend.
So let's become more open minded and create a circle of close friends !, I'm waiting for an opportunity 1 day as of now, I'm in a state of loneliness due to the community I am in.
Then you might start to wonder, hmm I'd wish that high school lasted forever, shy people could hardly cope with new environment probably because they are not the active kind of people that would most likely wish everyone that he/she sees
I would rate myself as a passive person, I am not so good yet when it comes to socialising, probably because I'm not a person that could start a conversation easily, most of the time, I would say that I'm afraid to start a conversation for the fear that I would bored people up because of my dull lifestyle which consist of just gaming, sleeping and eating.
but I would like to say something about myself that is, I'm willing to hang out if I get an invitation, I don't like to force myself into something that I'm not invited into, so most of the time, I would accept my friend's invitation to hang out at malls or watch movies. I don't really know why people would put a sour face at another person just because they do not know them, I think it's important not to read someone from their looks until we actually got into a conversation. I do know that most people would judge someone through their actions like swearing.
College life could be more exciting if everyone could be more friendlier and not to be so aggresive when it comes to friendship, don't expect too much from a friend if oneself doesn't even contribute a lot, most of the time, people don't contribute themselves fully because they don't trust a person yet, but why not give something a start, even for a friendship ?
Majority of the population would still be a little unmatured by thinking that the other individual that they might be talking to would probably be their girlfriend or boyfriend, but hey, don't draw too much attention, if you have a goal, tell your partner that you're just into friends and not a closer relationship. Why avoid meeting new people for just the sake of thinking that he or she that is being friendly towards you would probably be thinking that he or she is thinking of taking you as their boyfriend / girlfriend.
So let's become more open minded and create a circle of close friends !, I'm waiting for an opportunity 1 day as of now, I'm in a state of loneliness due to the community I am in.
No comments:
Post a Comment